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Gender queer and in the middle of boy and girl . . . ha ha :) Fcuk mol, I would go ape shit if my kid was given that form.  You either bang men, women, both or nowt.  (or possibly animals and inanimate objects in some disgustingly fetishistic perverted circumstances!)

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A girl I went to school with is always banging out about one thing or another, enraged and offended by everything and everyone. Anyway she posted this about her gender on FB the other week. I haven't a fucking clue what she's on about.

 

If anybody can decipher this..

 

 

 

My experience of coming out as agender literally confirmed all the (trans/queer community based) things that prevented me from coming out in the first place
- there is a standard of transness and being trans "enough" and I don't meet it. I am constantly asked for cis opinions and treated as cis by people who would prefer I was so they had a nice working class cis woman to shout at/humiliate/educate.
- my (luckily minimal) dysphoria is ignored, miscategorised or outright denied.
- there is a transnormative way to perform non-binary genders that I cannot attain/that don't correlate with my identity. I don't want to cut my hair short and bind, but unless I do then I'm not trans
- I am presumed to owe my peers a transformation, I am not allowed to occupy an (admittedly privileged) space where both my assigned gender and discovered genders exist parallel to one another, equally validly.
- until I transform the way I signal my identity in a way that pleases people with power in queer/trans communities I am excluded from any platform discussing gender (even my own). This may include not being invited to events or being spoken over and often the privileging of butch/androgynous cis women's opinions (on trans issues) over mine. 
- as in every gendered space, masculinity shouts the loudest and those whose presentations and identities are seen to be most closely aligned with it are the only ones who matter. 
- my gender identity isn't useful or valuable to any trans movement because it is not masculine and cannot be tokenised
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A girl I went to school with is always banging out about one thing or another, enraged and offended by everything and everyone. Anyway she posted this about her gender on FB the other week. I haven't a fucking clue what she's on about.

 

If anybody can decipher this..

Very simple.

 

He/she is shouting for attention

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I'll never ever get this. For me - gender is a biological certainty based on whether you were born with a cock and bollocks or a fanny - or in extremely rare occasions both.

 

Feel free to 'identify' with whatever you want but gender is defined and static.

 

For me there is no difference between people in this article and me suddenly telling everybody that I identify as a black African and expecting people to conform to the new vision of how I saw myself.

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I'll never ever get this. For me - gender is a biological certainty based on whether you were born with a cock and bollocks or a fanny - or in extremely rare occasions both.

 

Feel free to 'identify' with whatever you want but gender is defined and static.

 

For me there is no difference between people in this article and me suddenly telling everybody that I identify as a black African and expecting people to conform to the new vision of how I saw myself.

 

In one!  I actually first read the link Andydee put up as sexual preference, its only on a second look I see it is asking them to state gender!  Gender . . .Jesus H Christ there's only 2 f'kin options!  Maybe hermaphrodite as you allude to. . .  What bollocks - confusing the hell out of kids that.

 

I've just decided I'm a Mexican, gender fluid.  I can grow a 10" penis at will or swallow it back up and have a fanny like the Mersey tunnel - best of both worlds :)

 

Word, brother!

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Will he ever?

 

Yawwnnnnnnnnnnnnn! Oops, what? Did I miss breakfast?

 

The worlds gone fucking mad. 

 

Can't be arsed with you today pal. Too busy counting money.

 

You'll keep for a later date.

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