MancWanderer Posted July 23, 2017 Author Share Posted July 23, 2017 No mate. Got two mates (one who is brother in law) and it's ruined them It creates the most selfish, self- centred cunts in the world and ruins social gatherings. Just my opinion like Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Tonge moor green jacket Posted July 23, 2017 Site Supporter Share Posted July 23, 2017 No mate. Got two mates (one who is brother in law) and it's ruined them It creates the most selfish, self- centred cunts in the world and ruins social gatherings. Just my opinion like A sad day when folk can't socialise without getting off their tits. Especially if it leaves someone out of a job or similar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Escobarp Posted July 23, 2017 Share Posted July 23, 2017 Each to their own is what I say. I can't understand why folk smoke it's disgusting but I wouldn't look down on someone for doing it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Traf Posted July 23, 2017 Share Posted July 23, 2017 No mate. Got two mates (one who is brother in law) and it's ruined them It creates the most selfish, self- centred cunts in the world and ruins social gatherings. Just my opinion like You see, this possibly explains your dilemma. Most people's advice would be to stay the fuck out of the whole issue, but you've clearly got an anti-drugs axe to grind and I think this is clouding your judgement. PS this is coming from someone who doesn't touch the stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Hunt Posted July 23, 2017 Share Posted July 23, 2017 Struggling to see what benefit it is in bringing it up, it's hearsay with no evidence to support. TBH, the blokes manager has likely heard it too but hands are tied with no evidence. Only way to get them would be if there's a company random drink and drugs test bit I'd guess there'd be more than 1 worried about that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big E Posted July 23, 2017 Share Posted July 23, 2017 You see, this possibly explains your dilemma. Most people's advice would be to stay the fuck out of the whole issue, but you've clearly got an anti-drugs axe to grind and I think this is clouding your judgement. PS this is coming from someone who doesn't touch the stuff. Speaking to the boss isn't going to achieve anything. You won't be thanked and you will end up with the shitty end of the stick. I get you have an issue with drugs but it's fuck all to do with work or you. Remember these people may come in contact with you in the future. Obvs not replying to Traf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MancWanderer Posted July 23, 2017 Author Share Posted July 23, 2017 Maybe didn't explain it well enough. His manager is same level as me. I'm saying I'll have a word with him to let him know what's being said about one of his team. Not taking it upwards or anywhere else just saying to my mate who's at the same level as me what I've heard went on re the bags of powder. Up to him what he then does - quiet word, investigation, or whatever Yeah I've got serious issues with cocaine. I don't deny that. I've seen first hand at a family level how it fucks people's lives up and ruins marriages, relationships, friendships, the lot. Coke heads are cunts. End of. And I make no apologies for that statement. That's why I put the original question out there. Shit happened at a sales meeting and I'm hearing cocaine was involved so asked about the dilemma I was facing. Yes, my opinions were possibly clouding my judgement but having read everyone's replies I reckon I'm now following the best course of action. Thank you all for your replies/opinions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pato Posted July 23, 2017 Share Posted July 23, 2017 As someone said before what you haven't seen isn't evidence just hearsay but all you are giving your mate is a heads up so he is not caught out and if he has been acting a cunt before then he knows he is a cunt then he is cunt he needs to get rid of Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoberDan Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 (edited) I was once in a similar situation where a young rep was blowing off a married head of department in return for best salesman which included a cash bonus of 1k. I later was told by the director not to say anything or he would lose his job and his marriage and the sales rep would lose her job. I choose to say nothing as I wasn't bothered about the award as I was not eligable for it as I was in finance dept. Come the end of the year the said sales person against all odds had won the award despite being against salesman with 15 years more experience then her. I moved on to a new company yne following year I'd advise to say nothing especially if you are new to the company as I was. Only cause you grief and potentially make it impossible to continue your job Finally as for the chan thing. All of the salesman I know do it and the ones at the company I mentioned used to do it during working hours as did the directors (although it was dine discreetly) . You've clearly got a serious hatred off chan and anyone who uses it which I'd say is in a par to saying all Muslims are terrorists Edited July 24, 2017 by SoberDan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoberDan Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 Struggling to see what benefit it is in bringing it up, it's hearsay with no evidence to support. TBH, the blokes manager has likely heard it too but hands are tied with no evidence. Only way to get them would be if there's a company random drink and drugs test bit I'd guess there'd be more than 1 worried about that Exactly and I would be confident if they did it with the intention of sacking anyone tested positive then going off the various office I've worked you'd Lose at least half of your staff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big E Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 Maybe didn't explain it well enough. His manager is same level as me. I'm saying I'll have a word with him to let him know what's being said about one of his team. Not taking it upwards or anywhere else just saying to my mate who's at the same level as me what I've heard went on re the bags of powder. Up to him what he then does - quiet word, investigation, or whatever Yeah I've got serious issues with cocaine. I don't deny that. I've seen first hand at a family level how it fucks people's lives up and ruins marriages, relationships, friendships, the lot. Coke heads are cunts. End of. And I make no apologies for that statement. That's why I put the original question out there. Shit happened at a sales meeting and I'm hearing cocaine was involved so asked about the dilemma I was facing. Yes, my opinions were possibly clouding my judgement but having read everyone's replies I reckon I'm now following the best course of action. Thank you all for your replies/opinions But basically, pissed people have robbed ale and that's been dealt with. Two adults had sex. People took cocaine (allegedly). What you wanting to achieve. Who do you want sacked? I get it was a company event but has it affected the business Coke Monday? Seems a lot of hassle for not a lot of benefit unless you think it will some how make you into a saint. Playing with people's lives is not good Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gonzo Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 Not all people that drink are alcoholic piss cans. Not all people that take cocaine are coke head cunts. There having a dabble at a party and a bit of late session and there's whacking a load up your schnozle to get you through a Monday morning. There's different addictions accross society, you just happen to have beef with this particular one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ani Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 I think the position you are taking now is right. 'Listen mate there are loads of rumours going round about lads in your team, just so you know, I was not there so just letting you know' Then you are clear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter only1swanny Posted July 24, 2017 Site Supporter Share Posted July 24, 2017 I think the position you are taking now is right. 'Listen mate there are loads of rumours going round about lads in your team, just so you know, I was not there so just letting you know' Then you are clear. Pretty much, you've done your bit then.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MancWanderer Posted July 24, 2017 Author Share Posted July 24, 2017 You've clearly got a serious hatred off chan and anyone who uses it which I'd say is in a par to saying all Muslims are terrorists Fair point well made. I retract my "all cokeheads are cunts" and say "all cokeheads that I've known well are cunts" as they absolutely have been and have caused nothing but grief and mither Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 Oi, MW; don't forget to tell us what happens! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MancWanderer Posted July 24, 2017 Author Share Posted July 24, 2017 I think the position you are taking now is right. 'Listen mate there are loads of rumours going round about lads in your team, just so you know, I was not there so just letting you know' Then you are clear. That's exactly what I've done. I also added that he maybe needs a word because if it comes out as proven then he as manager will in all likelihood get roped in. He had no problem with me telling him what I'd heard and that all I was doing was giving him a heads-up on what had been said with no evidence on my side to back it up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Tonge moor green jacket Posted July 24, 2017 Site Supporter Share Posted July 24, 2017 Hope you feel better- relieved maybe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MancWanderer Posted July 24, 2017 Author Share Posted July 24, 2017 Aye. Really weighed on my mind what to do. As said above grateful for all the replies/opinions. Needed to bounce it off a few people but obviously couldn't do it at work Ironically company reissued the Code of Conduct today. Guess that was linked........... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bolty58 Posted July 25, 2017 Members Share Posted July 25, 2017 Coke Of Conduct? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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