Site Supporter Tonge moor green jacket Posted June 20, 2019 Site Supporter Share Posted June 20, 2019 20 minutes ago, Tommy Banks said: Firstly i wasn’t trying to get a long time poster removed from this site. Obviously in the opinion of some the remark made wasn’t offensive. My youngest grandson is badly affected by autism, I stand by my comments that even if no offence was intended by the poster. I personally find any negative comments about people with special needs offensive. This site has also raised decent sums of money for a range of folk, special needs included. Whilst I understand your point, life is, has been and hopefully will continue to be littered with bits of black humour. Context is important, naturally, and someone just being a cunt towards a particular individual or group because of a genuine issue would be challenged. At the same, when folk are prepared to dig into their pockets, it is clear that they're not necessarily 'ist' in one way or another. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 26 minutes ago, Tommy Banks said: Firstly i wasn’t trying to get a long time poster removed from this site. Obviously in the opinion of some the remark made wasn’t offensive. My youngest grandson is badly affected by autism, I stand by my comments that even if no offence was intended by the poster. I personally find any negative comments about people with special needs offensive. What about telling mods how to do their job? You have taken what was said out of context... My two pieces of advice are of you insist on taking things so personally, grow a thicker skin, and stay away from Cheese Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wullie Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 8 minutes ago, Dr Faustus said: What about telling mods how to do their job? You have taken what was said out of context... My two pieces of advice are of you insist on taking things so personally, grow a thicker skin, and stay away from Cheese Or people could have a second of thought before saying something that is easily taken out of context. Lots of people use the website, and whilst most of us have a weird/funny/bizare/dry/sarcastic etc sense of humour, some things need a second thought. I didn't myself find it offensive, but from experience, my sense of humour does get me in trouble some times Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breightmet Boy Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 21 hours ago, RoadRunnerFan said: I've long suspected that we have one or two closet autistic homosexuals in our midst. This message is aimed at people who aint got autism, its a play on words for gods sake. I think Ronnie Phillips is right, you too easily find fault and are offended, to ask mods for bans is outragious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 2 minutes ago, Wullie said: Or people could have a second of thought before saying something that is easily taken out of context. Lots of people use the website, and whilst most of us have a weird/funny/bizare/dry/sarcastic etc sense of humour, some things need a second thought. I didn't myself find it offensive, but from experience, my sense of humour does get me in trouble some times Yes, let's turn wways into fucking mumsnet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Tonge moor green jacket Posted June 20, 2019 Site Supporter Share Posted June 20, 2019 9 minutes ago, Wullie said: Or people could have a second of thought before saying something that is easily taken out of context. Lots of people use the website, and whilst most of us have a weird/funny/bizare/dry/sarcastic etc sense of humour, some things need a second thought. I didn't myself find it offensive, but from experience, my sense of humour does get me in trouble some times Then you need somewhere to express that humour without the thought police probing your brain- here! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProfessorWoland Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 1 hour ago, DazBob said: A question for all the wannabe forensic accountants on here. Once you find out who owes what to who and know who has paid how much and where, what will you do with all this information? Put it onto my colour coded BWFC current financial status wallchart of course, then make a separate entry into this years BWFC finance scrapbook and diary. Where else could it go? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DazBob Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 1 hour ago, Tommy Banks said: Firstly i wasn’t trying to get a long time poster removed from this site. Obviously in the opinion of some the remark made wasn’t offensive. My youngest grandson is badly affected by autism, I stand by my comments that even if no offence was intended by the poster. I personally find any negative comments about people with special needs offensive. If you take offence, especially when it wasn't intended, at jokey remarks then you're going to struggle on here, mate. ... And for the love of God, don't go Behind The Stands. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big E Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 4 hours ago, frank_spencer said: My lad is autistic as fuck and I clearly would be diagnosed if I was at school nowadays and yet saw nowt offensive in the post. Certainly compared to the rest of the site. I am amazed people take offence to autism comments yet miss the homosexual side off. surely both are out of order? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mounts Kipper Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 3 minutes ago, Big E said: I am amazed people take offence to autism comments yet miss the homosexual side off. surely both are out of order? Really!! On a football forum, it was meant in jest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevieb Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 3 minutes ago, Big E said: Surely both are out of order? You think it's out of order to be gay? Fucking hell it's 2019 man! It's fun taking comments out of context. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoadRunnerFan Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 53 minutes ago, ProfessorWoland said: Put it onto my colour coded BWFC current financial status wallchart of course, then make a separate entry into this years BWFC finance scrapbook and diary. Where else could it go? No spreadsheet? You're just playing at it Prof, rank amateur. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big E Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 11 minutes ago, Mounts Kipper said: Really!! On a football forum, it was meant in jest. thats what i am getting at. the comments are in jest and should be taken as so. likewise you cant just take offence to the bit thats relevant to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators Casino Posted June 20, 2019 Moderators Share Posted June 20, 2019 Love it or loathe it, this place self regulates It's been here 20 years and it's changing all the time Lots of folk leave cos it changes too much, others leave cos it doesn't change enough Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TroySwoosh Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 18 minutes ago, stevieb said: You think it's out of order to be gay? Fucking hell it's 2019 man! It's fun taking comments out of context. Made me laugh, I clicked on the heart thing, ooo-er Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoadRunnerFan Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 Sorry for any offence Tommy, as BB points out it's not aimed at people who are genuinely suffering from severe autism, but at personality traits that may resemble behaviours consistent with the high functioning end of the ASD spectrum. Thanks to all those that made supportive comments. Be nice to draw a line under it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DazBob Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 28 minutes ago, Big E said: I am amazed people take offence to autism comments yet miss the homosexual side off. surely both are out of order? Stop being a puff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kane57 Posted June 20, 2019 Author Share Posted June 20, 2019 Looking forward to Sluffy recapping all this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProfessorWoland Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 21 minutes ago, Casino said: Love it or loathe it, this place self regulates It's been here 20 years and it's changing all the time Lots of folk leave cos it changes too much, others leave cos it doesn't change enough You're missing a trick though. Bolton have just paid out 30k for fertiliser, just think how much all the shit that's posted in this thread is worth on the open market? This time next year Rodney... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barrycowdrill Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 1 hour ago, Big E said: I am amazed people take offence to autism comments yet miss the homosexual side off. surely both are out of order? Thinly veiled I’m a homo and am offended Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boo Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 Meh, gone to the dogs this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pricey Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 11 minutes ago, Boo said: Meh, gone to the dogs this thread. Love her shoes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tommy Banks Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 1 hour ago, RoadRunnerFan said: Sorry for any offence Tommy, as BB points out it's not aimed at people who are genuinely suffering from severe autism, but at personality traits that may resemble behaviours consistent with the high functioning end of the ASD spectrum. Thanks to all those that made supportive comments. Be nice to draw a line under it. Subject closed as far as I’m concerned, onwards and upwards 🙂🙂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ros Coe Posted June 20, 2019 Share Posted June 20, 2019 6 minutes ago, Pricey said: Love her shoes They’re boots.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter RONNIE PHILLIPS Posted June 20, 2019 Site Supporter Share Posted June 20, 2019 7 minutes ago, Tommy Banks said: Subject closed as far as I’m concerned, onwards and upwards 🙂🙂 Fair play mate... We're an odd bunch on here but generally decent underneath & generous when it comes to sponsoring people doing their bit for charities. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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