Following my recent health scare and 10 day stay in hospital, it was a real wake up call as to how small but important tasks I take for granted but she did not have a clue about as she has not had to do them for years (been married 40 years). We are now putting together a folder trying to cover everything but it’s frightening when you start trying to put everything down on paper just how much needs to be included, we also had someone round the other day starting the process for wills and lasting power of attorney, now that really is minefield as we have no kids so who do you put in charge of choosing your care home.