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Shaun Bates Funeral

As I said I would, only being 40 mins away I went down to it in Rugby today to show what support I could.

First point to make is top marks to Tony Kelly and Kevin Davies for going down; they chatted to Shaun's family and everyone in general afterwards. Indeed Shaun's dad Dave has nothing but praise for how the club has responded, Tony Kelly in particular.

Very emotional event, as you might imagine - heightened especially by the presence of so many of his school friends, who obviously found it especially hard to take. A few other Whites had turned up to pay their respects, including the lass who has the Daventry Whites flag which made its way all round Europe, and a few others I didn't get the chance to chat to. Also many of his schoolfriends had donned Bolton tops for the service, which was a nice gesture; plus there were a good few other shirts dotted round, from Derby, Rangers, Pompey, Liverpool, United, Everton, Newcastle etc. So there was very much a sense of the broader football family helping out, which, on chatting to Dave, clearly meant a lot to him.

Most poignant was the club flag drapped over the coffin :(

His dad Dave is going to try to get up to the Hull game - he still has some injuries which don't help the travelling. And of course it means going up the route they used that day - indeed signs asking for wintesses to the accident are still there I believe. But he does worry that if he doesn't get to that then he might not get back again.

Cracking bloke, bearing up with as much dignity and composure as you could possibly imagine in such an unimaginable scenario - had a friendly word and greeting for everyone on the day - as did other family members.

Of course there will many many hard days ahead for them, but at least I think today confirmed to them that they will want for nothing in terms of help and encouragement from the club, fellow Whites and the larger football community.

RIP Shaun

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I have posted a link to this on rivals.

 

I do not have words that can sum up how upsetting this must be for the family and his mates.

 

 

Great respect to Satan for attending to represent fellow fans.

 

Also to the club for having a presence there.

words cannot express my feelings

 

 

R.I.P. YOUNG WANDERER

words cannot express my feelings

 

 

R.I.P. YOUNG WANDERER

I wouldnt have had the strength to go, so thankyou to the fans and club representitives who did.

Rest in peace shaun and god bless,

R I P the young Wanderer

Thoughts to the family of him

Well done and great credit to all those mentioned who attended, should be proud of themselves

'Sleep sweet - to rise anew,

We caught the torch you threw,

And holding high we kept

The faith with those fellow men'

RIP fellow White.

 

Never lost, ALWAYS A WANDERER.

Not much to add - it has all been said. Thanks for representing us Satan.

 

RIP Shaun. Gone but not forgotten.

it's gonna be a while until the tears stop, I think it has something to do with being so far away and feeling absolutely helpless, we sent a little thank you note to Lois Reed Shaun's headteacher for all their support and to thank all Shaun's school friends for their attendance....Big thanks to Satan for keeping us updated

Rest in peace little one

Despite the endless fallouts on the site is heart-warming to know that when it really matters we come together as one.

 

RIP lttle fella

Satan , you made me proud to be a wanderer, with that post .

Ah, so Dave made it up to the game then (see my funeral post)? That's good :good: - as I said, he wasn't sure he could face it but was worried that if didn't he might not get back again.

Agreed - that Andy geezer is a top man and must have been an immense help to Dave in such sad times.

 

Andy mentioned you.

 

Dave was ok considering the loss of Shaun. They sit about 10 rows directly behind us in the NSU.

 

I gave Dave the signed shirt my lad wore when he was mascot last week and some photos, it was an emotional moment......

Dave is going to have it framed.

 

Dave is staggered by the support he has received from Wanderers fans.

 

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I gave Dave the signed shirt my lad wore when he was mascot last week and some photos, it was an emotional moment......

Dave is going to have it framed.

 

Belting gesture - mean the world to him, I'm sure =D>

Belting gesture - mean the world to him, I'm sure =D>

 

My lad said to Dave, "Shaun was with me on the pitch last week", I never asked him to say it, he just came out with it. Dave and I just looked at each other...

 

The club have been fantastic.

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Welling up again here FFS. Just goes to show that, amongst all the dross and drivel which gets fired around on here, the bottom line is that it is generally frequented by good people.

My lad said to Dave, "Shaun was with me on the pitch last week", I never asked him to say it, he just came out with it. Dave and I just looked at each other...

 

What a bastard of a thing to write on here. My eyes are sweating like a sweaty thing now!

 

I bet you were proud of him.

My lad said to Dave, "Shaun was with me on the pitch last week", I never asked him to say it, he just came out with it. Dave and I just looked at each other...

 

The club have been fantastic.

 

You have a fine young man there Crew :good:

What a bastard of a thing to write on here. My eyes are sweating like a sweaty thing now!

 

I bet you were proud of him.

 

I was, thing was I wanted to explain to Thomas that we where meeting Dave and why, but with the way he is its a little difficult, so when he spontanously said it I was gobsmacked, we all where. Then it was, "Dad, can I go back and play football with the other kids now".

 

Dave has asked me to keep in touch during pre-season (which I will do) and he keeping their seats next season so I will see him every match. Remarkable bloke, upmost respect for the man =D>

 

Dave has sent me PM on the BN site, I do know he has read this thread and is aware of what we have all been posting.

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