So the eldest (14) has a proper girlfriend.

it must be serious because he has taken to regular brushing of his teeth and showers without being nagged.

Theyre holding hands on the way home from school in front or everyone so its 'serious'

My lad is...lets say...'well developed' for his age, and we have had a 'put your own sheets in the washer' agreement for at least 2 years.

Whilst i hope theyre not sexually active im also not stupid enough to assume they wont be, we do have an easy going relationship and we have briefly discussed things like masturbation ( knock yerself out kid its normal- just not in the wrong place lad)

I need to have a chat with him which doesnt phase me at all,

the thing that phases me is

Condoms.

If it seems things may be getting more 'serious' and i get him some is it encouragement or simply a wise move?

 

I dont want to embarrass them but i dont want to be a grandma either.

 

Advice please boys and girls.

He shouldn't be having sex at 14, end of.

I completely agree, however im sure many of the male posters will say they had by then.

hence the question

im not comfortable at all with the idea and certainly wouldnt have a good thing to say about it if they were- but at the same time i cant stick my head in the clouds.

He shouldn't be having sex at 14, end of.

 

Any 14 year old worth his salt has already popped his cherry.

If my 14 year old daughters 'boyfriend' mum was supplying condoms I wouldn't be happy.

Any 14 year old worth his salt has already popped his cherry.

 

 

Bollocks.

my brother turns 16 in a few weeks and i plan to put one in his birthday card like a big brother should do, no doubt he'll probably try and blow it up and stick it up in my mums front room or make a balloon animal with it.

 

you could do what my mates mum did for him got some STD pictures from the clap clinic and showed him, what he will get if he doesn't bag up.

If my 14 year old daughters 'boyfriend' mum was supplying condoms I wouldn't be happy.

 

Fair point Bazza, this is why i need feedback, there are several parents on here and this is a genuine worry for me, im sure her parents wouldnt be pleased ( if it ever got to that stage) im damn sure they would be worse if she got pregnant

Tell him to aim it at her tits. Everyone knows you can't get pregnant that way.

Bollocks.

 

Aye, saying they have and actually doing so are two different things.

 

When I was 14 mine and my mates conquests must have easily been in double figure, none of them went to our school though.... funny that.

you could do what my mates mum did for him got some STD pictures from the clap clinic and showed him, what he will get if he doesn't bag up.

 

Nice idea. Well, not nice, but er...good.

Nice idea. Well, not nice, but er...good.

 

he was white as a sheet the next day when i saw him, he might not of had sex ever after that seeing as how i saw him the other week and he still looked the same. There you go, winner.

Aye, saying they have and actually doing so are two different things.

 

When I was 14 mine and my mates conquests must have easily been in double figure, none of them went to our school though.... funny that.

 

was you mate Jay from the inbetweeners?

Aye, saying they have and actually doing so are two different things.

 

When I was 14 mine and my mates conquests must have easily been in double figure, none of them went to our school though.... funny that.

 

I meant bollocks as to "worth their salt" comment, rather the reality . I started late. Made up for it like , but still, I'm glad I started late. I see many schoolgirls now and they look little whores. I do wonder what the mothers of these girls are thinking.

maybe you should let him move back in with you so you can keep an eye on him

was you mate Jay from the inbetweeners?

 

Exfukinzactly, caravan and camping club.

To be fair his girlfriend is not of the rolled up skirt/false tan/full war paint variety

Theyve been going out for a couple of months

Lets see how long it lasts, id rather approach her parents with concerns in future if necessary then be the one who has done 'the wrong thing', im resaponsible for him and they for her.

maybe you should let him move back in with you so you can keep an eye on him

 

'Let ' him?

You are aware he doesnt live with me through his choice.

If youre going to comment make it factual.

Thankyou

Tell him to aim it at her tits. Everyone knows you can't get pregnant that way.

 

Well who'd ave thought it!

I think you are doing the right thing, having an easy going relationship with him, he may not want to have full sex after learning that's how babies are made, all you can do is tell him the facts and then it is really up to him.

If my 14 year old daughters 'boyfriend' mum was supplying condoms I wouldn't be happy.

 

Nor would I, but if my 14 yr old daughter was having sex, I'd want her fella to wearing a nodder.

A....do you want me to tell my bird to pick him up in her car

B..... lend him kermit

C.....nip round and have a little whitt chat to him

I meant bollocks as to "worth their salt" comment, rather the reality . I started late. Made up for it like , but still, I'm glad I started late. I see many schoolgirls now and they look little whores. I do wonder what the mothers of these girls are thinking.

 

My "worth their salt" comment was tongue in cheek.I started early, but it was in a "proper" long term relationship.....it didn't seem to do either of us any harm - Non, je ne regrette rien.

Edited March 14, 201214 yr by Burndens Bogs

we have briefly discussed things like masturbation ( knock yerself out kid its normal- just not in the wrong place lad)

 

If he knocks himself out, he's tying the tourniquet too tight. JSL.

Edited March 14, 201214 yr by Carlos

Holding hands in the street? Good grief

 

Is his dad a queer or something, letting him get away with acting like a fairy?

A....do you want me to tell my bird to pick him up in her car

B..... lend him kermit

C.....nip round and have a little whitt chat to him

 

i'm 34 yet all 3 sound good, i'll get the beers in