February 28, 200521 yr Mate of mine has been married 15 years and has a couple of kids. He has never cheated on her (so he tells me) or been violent to her. Out of the blue a couple of weeks ago,she said she didn't love him and wanted a divorce. Mate is gutted as loves her to bits and thinks the world of the kids. He is willing to try anything to save his marriage and keep his family together but she is stubborn and says no. He doesn't want a divorce. Can he be forced into a divorce or can he delay it for a certain period of time to see if he can persuade her otherwise ? He doesn't see why the kids should suffer Are there any legal eagles out there that can help. BY THE WAY IT IS NOT ME UNLESS THE WIFE KNOWS DIFFERENT
February 28, 200521 yr Mate of mine has been married 15 years and has a couple of kids. He has never cheated on her (so he tells me) or been violent to her. Out of the blue a couple of weeks ago,she said she didn't love him and wanted a divorce. Mate is gutted as loves her to bits and thinks the world of the kids. He is willing to try anything to save his marriage and keep his family together but she is stubborn and says no. He doesn't want a divorce. Can he be forced into a divorce or can he delay it for a certain period of time to see if he can persuade her otherwise ? He doesn't see why the kids should suffer Are there any legal eagles out there that can help. BY THE WAY IT IS NOT ME UNLESS THE WIFE KNOWS DIFFERENT Has he got a patio - that's the only way he'll keep the kids
February 28, 200521 yr Mate of mine has been married 15 years and has a couple of kids. He has never cheated on her (so he tells me) or been violent to her. Out of the blue a couple of weeks ago,she said she didn't love him and wanted a divorce. Mate is gutted as loves her to bits and thinks the world of the kids. He is willing to try anything to save his marriage and keep his family together but she is stubborn and says no. He doesn't want a divorce. Can he be forced into a divorce or can he delay it for a certain period of time to see if he can persuade her otherwise ? He doesn't see why the kids should suffer Are there any legal eagles out there that can help. BY THE WAY IT IS NOT ME UNLESS THE WIFE KNOWS DIFFERENT well a subject i know summat about !! you can get divorced in 2 ways 1. one of you sues the other, the 'other' has to agree to the reason. so if she says unreasonable behaviour he has to agree then this goes through. this is a 'quickie' and can only happen if both parties agree or one is prepared to go to court to prove their case which is virtually impossible, unless there is outstanding evidence 2. you split up and then after 2 years you can divorce. after this time normally done as living apart. the good news is that the old fashioned idea of fathers not getting access is not as bad as 'fathers for justice' would have you beleive (i had no kids when divorced so this is not from personal experience) wether your mate likes it or not he needs to speak to a solicitor, the longer he leaves it the longer it drags on. you can sign a seperation that sets the 2 years running he might not like it but if she aint happy best to try and move on. btw........what size of tits has she got ? (had to ask)
February 28, 200521 yr Mate of mine has been married 15 years and has a couple of kids. He has never cheated on her (so he tells me) or been violent to her. Out of the blue a couple of weeks ago,she said she didn't love him and wanted a divorce. Mate is gutted as loves her to bits and thinks the world of the kids. He is willing to try anything to save his marriage and keep his family together but she is stubborn and says no. He doesn't want a divorce. Can he be forced into a divorce or can he delay it for a certain period of time to see if he can persuade her otherwise ? He doesn't see why the kids should suffer Are there any legal eagles out there that can help. BY THE WAY IT IS NOT ME UNLESS THE WIFE KNOWS DIFFERENT He's not called Kevin is he?
February 28, 200521 yr She can't just divorce him, she has to have grounds for divorce for example being separated for a long period of time. If she went to a solicitor he would just tell her to bugger off.
February 28, 200521 yr So in a nut shell if he doesn't want a quick divorce and she has no grounds apart from the fact she can't be bothered to discuss it reasonably and try,a minimum 2 years. Can he live the witch for 2 years on these bad terms !
February 28, 200521 yr someone I know's dad cheated on his mum. he's lived apart from her for 2 years now, so the separation period is completed and he can file for divorce. she doesn't want it, cos at the minute he's paying the mortgage, etc. anyway, they never signed a separation agreement 2 years ago, and he now finds after visiting a solicitor that he has to start the 2 year period all over again before he can get a divorce! mad. if I were your mate - I'd go out and shag my wife's best friend! rub it in. your single. you can do what you want.
February 28, 200521 yr if I were your mate - I'd go out and shag my wife's best friend! rub it in. your single. you can do what you want. dsmiley - Rumpole of the bailey / Marriage guidance council
February 28, 200521 yr Mate of mine has been married 15 years and has a couple of kids. He has never cheated on her (so he tells me) or been violent to her. Out of the blue a couple of weeks ago,she said she didn't love him and wanted a divorce. Mate is gutted as loves her to bits and thinks the world of the kids. He is willing to try anything to save his marriage and keep his family together but she is stubborn and says no. He doesn't want a divorce. Can he be forced into a divorce or can he delay it for a certain period of time to see if he can persuade her otherwise ? He doesn't see why the kids should suffer Are there any legal eagles out there that can help. BY THE WAY IT IS NOT ME UNLESS THE WIFE KNOWS DIFFERENT The family law in this country is all total bollox! In your case senario why does the man have to be made to suffer the loss of losing his children!? Why is it the man who always as to leave the marital home!? It makes my fukin' blood boil! The forced removal of fathers from their children is hateful and it is done under the auspices of a law that is profoundly unjust. It is of course an oxymoron to have unjust law. While family law remains flagrantly biased, prejudicial, and discriminatory, when its effects are in direct opposition to its intent, when inalienable rights go unrecognised, when the administrators of that law exist in an exclusive world of secrecy and overweening state power, when the cost of the implementation of this law to the state is onerous and the cost to society unbearable, when judgement is ordained by the sentiment of past ages and while our men and our children are forced through this disgusting and baleful construct, cruelly and surely ironically called 'Family' law, to exist in a world of emptiness, pain, loss, yearning and grief then all efforts must be made to focus through debate, lobbying and campaigning to strike it down forever.
February 28, 200521 yr This happened to me last friday and I havnt seen the kids since, she wont let me although I havnt done anything wrong she just locks the door and turns the key so I cant get in. Everyone has told her she cannot do this even her own soliciter but the OB have told me its a civil matter and they are powerless. It stinks.
February 28, 200521 yr Your words Andy? A statement for non-resident fathers in this country who are totally fuked off with family law system and the unlawful treatment of fathers who cannot see their children because of decisions made by bureaucrats and hierarchical systems that form the arena we know as 'Family Law'. Margaret Hodge as alot to answer for in relation to the Green Paper - Every Child Matters. The system that the Family courts use to discrimate against fathers is in itself against principles written in the Human Rights Act for those its meant to help. I run an orgnisation that supports fathers in these situations. However I am not actively a Fathers4Justice campaigner but I do support their cause and understand their motives to make awareness. The story by fruitbat is typical of many stories I hear through the organisation.
March 1, 200521 yr a mate of mine got kicked out by his evil missus, she took him to the cleaners (money wise, not the launderette). he visited his kids at the weekend when she let him. he visited them one day and said he wanted to take them swimming. evil ex wife would give him and swimming stuff for the kids. he end up having to go to the shop and buying them new stuff just so they could swim. its the kids who suffer.
March 1, 200521 yr This happened to me last friday and I havnt seen the kids since, she wont let me although I havnt done anything wrong she just locks the door and turns the key so I cant get in. Everyone has told her she cannot do this even her own soliciter but the OB have told me its a civil matter and they are powerless. It stinks. If it's your name on the house deeds, you can use reasonable force to reclaim access to your home ie kick the door in!
March 1, 200521 yr Its in joint names but I dont want to go round smashing the windows and stuff and I cant afford ??70.00 a pop for the locksmith to come out all the time. Over a barrell
March 1, 200521 yr Mate of mine has been married 15 years and has a couple of kids.The forced removal of fathers from their children is hateful and it is done under the auspices of a law that is profoundly unjust. It is of course an oxymoron to have unjust law. While family law remains flagrantly biased, prejudicial, and discriminatory, when its effects are in direct opposition to its intent, when inalienable rights go unrecognised, when the administrators of that law exist in an exclusive world of secrecy and overweening state power, when the cost of the implementation of this law to the state is onerous and the cost to society unbearable, when judgement is ordained by the sentiment of past ages and while our men and our children are forced through this disgusting and baleful construct, cruelly and surely ironically called 'Family' law, to exist in a world of emptiness, pain, loss, yearning and grief then all efforts must be made to focus through debate, lobbying and campaigning to strike it down forever. I can hear Johnny Vaughan playing Land of Hope and Glory
March 1, 200521 yr women are evil [-X Can't tar us all with the same brush. What about those fathers who cant be bothered seeing their kids, my son hasn't seen his dad in I dont know how long and that was his choice not mine, we didn't fall out or anything he has just chosen not to see his son. I feel sorry for the bloke and I hope he can sort things out amicably, especially if they have kids, they dont realise what effect it has on children when a marriage breaks down. Can they not try going to RELATE or something similar.
March 1, 200521 yr Mate of mine has been married 15 years and has a couple of kids. He has never cheated on her (so he tells me) or been violent to her. Out of the blue a couple of weeks ago,she said she didn't love him and wanted a divorce. Mate is gutted as loves her to bits and thinks the world of the kids. He is willing to try anything to save his marriage and keep his family together but she is stubborn and says no. He doesn't want a divorce. Can he be forced into a divorce or can he delay it for a certain period of time to see if he can persuade her otherwise ? He doesn't see why the kids should suffer Are there any legal eagles out there that can help. BY THE WAY IT IS NOT ME UNLESS THE WIFE KNOWS DIFFERENT Think Kin Hell, Deja Vou. Luckily I don't have kids. MOVE ON SON MOVE ON. Tell yer mate, I 've got plenty of wank films And the answer is NOT in the bottom of a pint. ST Shot through the heart any your to blame.
March 1, 200521 yr Kin Hell, Deja Vou. Luckily I don't have kids. Just goes to show, there's always a silver lining, eh Jaffa
March 1, 200521 yr Kin Hell, Deja Vou. Luckily I don't have kids. MOVE ON SON MOVE ON. Tell yer mate, I 've got plenty of wank films And the answer is NOT in the bottom of a pint. ST Shot through the heart any your to blame. small cock I heard!
Mate of mine has been married 15 years and has a couple of kids.
He has never cheated on her (so he tells me) or been violent to her.
Out of the blue a couple of weeks ago,she said she didn't love him and wanted a divorce.
Mate is gutted as loves her to bits and thinks the world of the kids.
He is willing to try anything to save his marriage and keep his family together but she is stubborn and says no.
He doesn't want a divorce.
Can he be forced into a divorce or can he delay it for a certain period of time to see if he can persuade her otherwise ?
He doesn't see why the kids should suffer
Are there any legal eagles out there that can help.
BY THE WAY IT IS NOT ME UNLESS THE WIFE KNOWS DIFFERENT