Bea Smith Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 Why is it when youre younger you want an older partner and as you get older you want a younger one? Scientist will tell you its because a young womans sex drive is equal to an older mans, whereas a young mans is similar to that of a more mature woman. Or do we only like younger partners cos they tend to have firmer bodies etc? Are young girls looking for a father figure? Im wondering when i will start to fancy younger men. At the moment i think anyone under 25 is a baby, ( although lots of under 25's must be decent in the sack-so no offence) point is- when will i think under 25 is sexy? When my hubby hits 40? Or when my paps hit the floor? Dirty thirties for me next year, will it happen then? Any of you out there with big age gap relationships? and are they more difficult than ones where you are of similar ages?
Underpants Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 Why is it when youre younger you want an older partner and as you get older you want a younger one?Scientist will tell you its because a young womans sex drive is equal to an older mans, whereas a young mans is similar to that of a more mature woman. Or do we only like younger partners cos they tend to have firmer bodies etc? Are young girls looking for a father figure? Im wondering when i will start to fancy younger men. At the moment i think anyone under 25 is a baby, ( although lots of under 25's must be decent in the sack-so no offence) point is- when will i think under 25 is sexy? When my hubby hits 40? Or when my paps hit the floor? Dirty thirties for me next year, will it happen then? Any of you out there with big age gap relationships? and are they more difficult than ones where you are of similar ages? You'll start to think under 25's are sexy when your husbands paps hit the floor. Won't be long now.
barryk32 Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 9 years between me and Mrs Barryk32, I've no idea what I saw in a 18 year old
Big_Girl_Oral_Explosion Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 9 years between me and Mrs Barryk32, I've no idea what I saw in a 18 year old Same here, my missus is 7 years younger. Went from one extreme to another as the first wife was 11 years older than me. Now that was a mistake! Trouble is she is now 39 and the blow jobs have stopped
Bea Smith Posted March 7, 2007 Author Posted March 7, 2007 You'll start to think under 25's are sexy when your husbands paps hit the floor. Won't be long now. We are trying to counteract that with sports bras.
no balls Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 I used to take issue with it but maybe getting older I've mellowed a bit. Each to their own I say. Having said that, anymore than 10 years does look a little odd imho. Having said that, I can't see me ever going out with someone too young/ too old not to know who Modern Romance are or who don't remember Spandau Ballet prior to those bright suits.
Churchill Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 There's 15 between me and the missus!Im 26 and she's 41.I suppose like any relationships there's advantages and disadvantages.For me it's the way im treated and respected and obviously the sex,for her well fook knows what she sees in me.Weve been together now for 5yrs and ive enjoyed ever minute of them!I always think to myself that if it ended tommorow then they were 5yrs well spent and not wasted!It's just a nightmare when im on holiday and there's puntang my age knocking about that need a good seeing to but im with the 41yr old!One things for sure though i would'nt change it!!
Bea Smith Posted March 7, 2007 Author Posted March 7, 2007 It's just a nightmare when im on holiday and there's puntang my age knocking about that need a good seeing to but im with the 41yr old!One things for sure though i would'nt change it!! I dont really think the age of your girlfriend makes any difference to wanting a bit of 'other' occasionally. if you fancy someone in the supermarket, on holiday, or anywhere else for that matter then you simply fancy em- no matter what your partner looks like or how old they are. Its the fact that you're not single that pisses you off when you see someone you wouldnt mind 'seeing to'- not that your missus is 'too old' cos, as you say, things are pretty great between you anyway. For now in definately still in the 'older man' phase, but that cant continue forever otherwise i will be going to Age Concern to cop.
no balls Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 I dont really think the age of your girlfriend makes any difference to wanting a bit of 'other' occasionally. if you fancy someone in the supermarket, on holiday, or anywhere else for that matter then you simply fancy em- no matter what your partner looks like or how old they are. Its the fact that you're not single that pisses you off when you see someone you wouldnt mind 'seeing to'- not that your missus is 'too old' cos, as you say, things are pretty great between you anyway. For now in definately still in the 'older man' phase, but that cant continue forever otherwise i will be going to Age Concern to cop. I've never really gone for the 'older man' type, usually my age or a little younger. So what is it Missus C which attracts you to the older ones? Oh and btw, you'll be perving over the young ones soon. Trust me, now you're well on your way to the big three oh, you'll be sniffing after a bit of young meat.
Churchill Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 Very good point missus C!It is indeed the fact that im not single as to why i want to rip there backs out.Now that is messed up,how come you want a relationship when you're not in one,then when you are you don't!I'll be fooked if i know!
Burndens Bogs Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 Why is it when you're younger you want an older partner and as you get older you want a younger one? Yeh i reckon theres a lot of truth in what you say Mrs C. When i was a teenager, the ultimate fantasy would have been a dabble with a woman in her thirties who could maybe teach a trick or two! I'm 9 years older than Ms Bogs, and we don't even notice the age gap ( until she starts hanging around the school gates diving on 6th formers) And as a fella gets older, the prospect of "educating" someone younger does have it's attractions i s'pose.
bwfc_sue Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 Big 40 for this one next year and still struggling to fancy the younger male species.
Piemon Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 when i was 18 i had relations with a mid 30's lady at work. thought i was king o't world
alibob Posted March 17, 2007 Posted March 17, 2007 my 'boyfriend-to'be' is about 10 yrs older than me. and I reckon I'm still more mature than him. Although I have always tended to go for blokes older than me. maybe cos I hope by a certain age they may have some vague idea what women want.
barryk32 Posted March 17, 2007 Posted March 17, 2007 (edited) Same here, my missus is 7 years younger. Went from one extreme to another as the first wife was 11 years older than me. Now that was a mistake! Trouble is she is now 39 and the blow jobs have stopped Didnt realise this thread was still going, biggest age gap was.......... old when I was 18, Didnt realise the blowjobs had started. Maybe I shouldnt have let her move in so soon. Edited March 17, 2007 by barryk32
Smiffs Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 my 'boyfriend-to'be' is about 10 yrs older than me. and I reckon I'm still more mature than him.Although I have always tended to go for blokes older than me. maybe cos I hope by a certain age they may have some vague idea what women want. you will be pissing in the wind there sweetheart
Burndens Bogs Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Maybe cos I hope by a certain age they may have some vague idea what women want. When are wimmin going to realise, that most blokes couldn't give a flying fcuk what women want
Dollybird Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Older men, and women have a different attitude to life, younger men are just looking for there next conquest and an older woman fits the bill, sexual experience and all that ! Older men for me, don't want any little boys and their tantrums !!
Guest The Special One Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Older men, and women have a different attitude to life, younger men are just looking for there next conquest and an older woman fits the bill, sexual experience and all that ! Older men for me, don't want any little boys and their tantrums !! Iamin is younger though
barryk32 Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Iamin is younger though Controversial. I'm always given the impression of good friends ::::::::::::
Burndens Bogs Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Older men. WE are the future Only trouble is,we'll soon be the PAST ::::::::::::
athywhite1958 Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Only trouble is,we'll soon be the PAST :::::::::::::: When I'm past it I won't give a f'uck, plenty years in me yet
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