Dr Faustus Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 I thought I'd made so much progression this year- lost weight, felt good... Cutting down the booze And it all comes crashing; I'm probably equally at fault for a toxic relationship, but I've been slapped again and resorted to glassing myself to prevent her from doing it as she told me she wanted to... Can't be doing with another fucking year like this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Tonge moor green jacket Posted December 31, 2022 Site Supporter Share Posted December 31, 2022 15 minutes ago, Dr Faustus said: I thought I'd made so much progression this year- lost weight, felt good... Cutting down the booze And it all comes crashing; I'm probably equally at fault for a toxic relationship, but I've been slapped again and resorted to glassing myself to prevent her from doing it as she told me she wanted to... Can't be doing with another fucking year like this Fucking hell. Domestic abuse can happen by either party and you don't have to accept it. Plenty of charities- here's an advisory place, maybe give them a call. https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DazBob Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 1 hour ago, Dr Faustus said: I thought I'd made so much progression this year- lost weight, felt good... Cutting down the booze And it all comes crashing; I'm probably equally at fault for a toxic relationship, but I've been slapped again and resorted to glassing myself to prevent her from doing it as she told me she wanted to... Can't be doing with another fucking year like this You need to get out of there pal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Popular Post bolton_blondie Posted December 31, 2022 Members Popular Post Share Posted December 31, 2022 So I've finally admitted to myself I had post natal depression at the beginning of the year. Never got help with it, never talked about it much. Just cried and cried. Add to that I became a single Mum of two, I left my house 'for a few weeks' whilst it was renovated. That few weeks became 8 months. Now I'm back home with my babies, I don't cry anymore, I met a wonderful man who makes me happier than I've ever been before. Oh and I'm starting a new job hopefully next year. 2022 has ended a lot better than it started. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter only1swanny Posted December 31, 2022 Site Supporter Share Posted December 31, 2022 2 hours ago, Dr Faustus said: I thought I'd made so much progression this year- lost weight, felt good... Cutting down the booze And it all comes crashing; I'm probably equally at fault for a toxic relationship, but I've been slapped again and resorted to glassing myself to prevent her from doing it as she told me she wanted to... Can't be doing with another fucking year like this Domestic abuse is a no no. Plenty if charities as it happens to a lot of Blokes. If you need to ring the plod on her do so, just make sure you record the worst of it first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter only1swanny Posted December 31, 2022 Site Supporter Share Posted December 31, 2022 45 minutes ago, bolton_blondie said: So I've finally admitted to myself I had post natal depression at the beginning of the year. Never got help with it, never talked about it much. Just cried and cried. Add to that I became a single Mum of two, I left my house 'for a few weeks' whilst it was renovated. That few weeks became 8 months. Now I'm back home with my babies, I don't cry anymore, I met a wonderful man who makes me happier than I've ever been before. Oh and I'm starting a new job hopefully next year. 2022 has ended a lot better than it started. Good to hear you're ending on a high:) Post natal depressions grim, seen it hit people badly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomski Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 1 hour ago, bolton_blondie said: So I've finally admitted to myself I had post natal depression at the beginning of the year. Never got help with it, never talked about it much. Just cried and cried. Add to that I became a single Mum of two, I left my house 'for a few weeks' whilst it was renovated. That few weeks became 8 months. Now I'm back home with my babies, I don't cry anymore, I met a wonderful man who makes me happier than I've ever been before. Oh and I'm starting a new job hopefully next year. 2022 has ended a lot better than it started. Nice to see a W as the kids say. Well done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 I don't even want to walk home Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 I'm literally crying in the street- dunno if I'll be allowed in You all know I'm far from b perfect, two sides etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomski Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 3 minutes ago, Dr Faustus said: I'm literally crying in the street- dunno if I'll be allowed in You all know I'm far from b perfect, two sides etc Appreciate I’m not a great help here but have you anywhere else you can go? Doesn’t sound like home is the best idea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 This is fucked I've just walked though the ropiest of worries alleys hoping to get mugged at least... Was told safe our kid I need to stop Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 I'm literally in the middle of LH offering it out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Tonge moor green jacket Posted December 31, 2022 Site Supporter Share Posted December 31, 2022 4 minutes ago, tomski said: Appreciate I’m not a great help here but have you anywhere else you can go? Doesn’t sound like home is the best idea. A cool off sounds like a good idea. Dr- you could ring the people I put a link up to earier. Or Google and find any help line. They WILL help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 Not even allowed in my own house... Thank god for that shit porch Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Tonge moor green jacket Posted December 31, 2022 Site Supporter Share Posted December 31, 2022 2 minutes ago, Dr Faustus said: Not even allowed in my own house... Thank god for that shit porch You said before that you'd glassed yourself. Are you injured, bleeding and in need of.medical attention? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 Just now, Tonge moor green jacket said: You said before that you'd glassed yourself. Are you injured, bleeding and in need of.medical attention? Nah, just a gash a top of my head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 It's probably wrong I took the picture; sometimes you need to document where you are at... Conversely, things need to be kept in house... I find myself arguing with my own morals... At least I'm entering the new year dry, if not warm, might have piles... At least I can hear my kids xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Tonge moor green jacket Posted December 31, 2022 Site Supporter Share Posted December 31, 2022 Nothing wrong with taking the picture, no need to question yourself. But, your head is a mess and it's natural to be filled with self doubt. That cut needs cleaning, and checking that it's only superficial. Is hearing your children helping or making you more upset? Are you at all concerned for their safety? Honest answers should help you make your move the best one. Particularly the second- if you genuinely are, then you must ring the police. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leyther_Matt Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 First thing you need to do is get the cut looked at just in case there are any shards Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 Kids are fine... I've got cuts all over the gaff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Tonge moor green jacket Posted December 31, 2022 Site Supporter Share Posted December 31, 2022 2 minutes ago, Dr Faustus said: Kids are fine... I've got cuts all over the gaff Seriously, get yourself off to A&E. Order a taxi. It will be a wait, but shouldn't be quite as bad through minors. You'll be somewhere warm and possibly someone on the staff you can have a chat with. Your kids are safe so you don't need to worry about them, and right now, huddled in a porch on your own is miserable and you'll just ruminate. Should give you the opportunity you calm down a bit and help you make more reasoned decisions. Check you've enough phone charge too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter only1swanny Posted December 31, 2022 Site Supporter Share Posted December 31, 2022 1 hour ago, Tonge moor green jacket said: Seriously, get yourself off to A&E. Order a taxi. It will be a wait, but shouldn't be quite as bad through minors. You'll be somewhere warm and possibly someone on the staff you can have a chat with. Your kids are safe so you don't need to worry about them, and right now, huddled in a porch on your own is miserable and you'll just ruminate. Should give you the opportunity you calm down a bit and help you make more reasoned decisions. Check you've enough phone charge too. This.. get yourself to a and e.. you can then speak to a nurse and explain and they'll help. They're trained for those type of disclosures and can direct you. And sort your cut at the same time. Don't play it down it is what it is, you're escaping domestic abuse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DazBob Posted January 1, 2023 Share Posted January 1, 2023 @Dr Faustus please let us know you're ok. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted January 1, 2023 Share Posted January 1, 2023 I'm ok guys; sorry for Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr Faustus Posted January 1, 2023 Share Posted January 1, 2023 I'm ok... Apparently I should find a corner and die, and at least she'll be here tomorrow She's had a few too many, but I've got to be outtie now How the fuck I'll afford anything Fuck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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