For those that questioned why I didn’t attend the game last Saturday, this was why. My daughter asked me to go to the Pride parade with her, have a few drinks, a meal, and generally have a catch up on her life and her website project. She doesn’t live with me so I don’t see her that often so face to face time is very valuable

I’ve highlighted one particular part of her social media post from today. That is a nod to WWays. She was stunned by the response from here. I thank all of you that contributed feedback once again for your support.......

 

 

As some of you may remember, a year ago I set up a website that allows people to submit and share their personal stories regarding mental health, encouraging people to use their voice and realise that they're not going through this alone.

The response I received was absolutely insane. That insane in fact, that I shut it down after a few months as I couldn't cope with managing the website alongside my own mental health.

But now I'm back 💥 I'm in a better place with my mental health, I'm currently in the process of purchasing my first home, and next week I start my dream job as a Teaching Assistant in a special educational needs school.

So I've decided to relaunch my project. A website where you can anonymously submit your mental health story, in the form of poetry, short stories, song lyrics, or simply anything that expresses you.

www.mindofourown.co.uk

Edited August 27, 20196 yr by MancWanderer

15 minutes ago, Dr Faustus said:

I thought I'd made so much progression this year- lost weight, felt good... Cutting down the booze

And it all comes crashing; I'm probably equally at fault for a toxic relationship, but I've been slapped again and resorted to glassing myself to prevent her from doing it as she told me she wanted to... Can't be doing with another fucking year like this

 

Fucking hell.

Domestic abuse can happen by either party and you don't have to accept it.

Plenty of charities- here's an advisory place, maybe give them a call.

https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/

1 hour ago, Dr Faustus said:

I thought I'd made so much progression this year- lost weight, felt good... Cutting down the booze

And it all comes crashing; I'm probably equally at fault for a toxic relationship, but I've been slapped again and resorted to glassing myself to prevent her from doing it as she told me she wanted to... Can't be doing with another fucking year like this

 

You need to get out of there pal.

So I've finally admitted to myself I had post natal depression at the beginning of the year. Never got help with it, never talked about it much. Just cried and cried. Add to that I became a single Mum of two, I left my house 'for a few weeks' whilst it was renovated. That few weeks became 8 months. Now I'm back home with my babies, I don't cry anymore, I met a wonderful man who makes me happier than I've ever been before. Oh and I'm starting a new job hopefully next year. 2022 has ended a lot better than it started. 

2 hours ago, Dr Faustus said:

I thought I'd made so much progression this year- lost weight, felt good... Cutting down the booze

And it all comes crashing; I'm probably equally at fault for a toxic relationship, but I've been slapped again and resorted to glassing myself to prevent her from doing it as she told me she wanted to... Can't be doing with another fucking year like this

 

Domestic abuse is a no no. Plenty if charities as it happens to a lot of Blokes. 

If you need to ring the plod on her do so, just make sure you record the worst of it first. 

45 minutes ago, bolton_blondie said:

So I've finally admitted to myself I had post natal depression at the beginning of the year. Never got help with it, never talked about it much. Just cried and cried. Add to that I became a single Mum of two, I left my house 'for a few weeks' whilst it was renovated. That few weeks became 8 months. Now I'm back home with my babies, I don't cry anymore, I met a wonderful man who makes me happier than I've ever been before. Oh and I'm starting a new job hopefully next year. 2022 has ended a lot better than it started. 

Good to hear you're ending on a high:) 

Post natal depressions grim, seen it hit people badly. 

1 hour ago, bolton_blondie said:

So I've finally admitted to myself I had post natal depression at the beginning of the year. Never got help with it, never talked about it much. Just cried and cried. Add to that I became a single Mum of two, I left my house 'for a few weeks' whilst it was renovated. That few weeks became 8 months. Now I'm back home with my babies, I don't cry anymore, I met a wonderful man who makes me happier than I've ever been before. Oh and I'm starting a new job hopefully next year. 2022 has ended a lot better than it started. 

Nice to see a W as the kids say. Well done.

I don't even want to walk home

I'm literally crying in the street- dunno if I'll be allowed in 

You all know I'm far from b perfect, two sides etc

 

 

 

 

 

 

3 minutes ago, Dr Faustus said:

I'm literally crying in the street- dunno if I'll be allowed in 

You all know I'm far from b perfect, two sides etc

 

 

 

 

 

 

Appreciate I’m not a great help here but have you anywhere else you can go? Doesn’t sound like home is the best idea.

This is fucked I've just walked though the ropiest of worries alleys hoping to get mugged at least... Was told safe our kid

 

I need to stop 

 

 

I'm literally in the middle of LH offering it out 

4 minutes ago, tomski said:

Appreciate I’m not a great help here but have you anywhere else you can go? Doesn’t sound like home is the best idea.

A cool off sounds like a good idea.

Dr- you could ring the people I put a link up to earier. Or Google and find any help line. They WILL help.

Not even allowed in my own house... Thank god for that shit porch 

2 minutes ago, Dr Faustus said:

Not even allowed in my own house... Thank god for that shit porch 

You said before that you'd glassed yourself. Are you injured, bleeding and in need of.medical attention?

Just now, Tonge moor green jacket said:

You said before that you'd glassed yourself. Are you injured, bleeding and in need of.medical attention?

Nah, just a gash a top of my head

It's probably wrong I took the picture; sometimes you need to document where you are at... Conversely, things need to be kept in house... 

 

I find myself arguing with my own morals... At least I'm entering the new year dry, if not warm, might have piles... At least I can hear my kids xx

Nothing wrong with taking the picture, no need to question yourself.

But, your head is a mess and it's natural to be filled with self doubt.

That cut needs cleaning, and checking that it's only superficial. 

Is hearing your children helping or making you more upset?

Are you at all concerned for their safety?

Honest answers should help you make your move the best one. Particularly the second- if you genuinely are, then you must ring the police.

First thing you need to do is get the cut looked at just in case there are any shards

Kids are fine... I've got cuts all over the gaff

2 minutes ago, Dr Faustus said:

Kids are fine... I've got cuts all over the gaff

Seriously, get yourself off to A&E. Order a taxi. It will be a wait, but shouldn't be quite as bad through minors.

You'll be somewhere warm and possibly someone on the staff you can have a chat with.

Your kids are safe so you don't need to worry about them, and right now, huddled in a porch on your own is miserable and you'll just ruminate.

Should give you the opportunity you calm down a bit and help you make more reasoned decisions.

Check you've enough phone charge too.

1 hour ago, Tonge moor green jacket said:

Seriously, get yourself off to A&E. Order a taxi. It will be a wait, but shouldn't be quite as bad through minors.

You'll be somewhere warm and possibly someone on the staff you can have a chat with.

Your kids are safe so you don't need to worry about them, and right now, huddled in a porch on your own is miserable and you'll just ruminate.

Should give you the opportunity you calm down a bit and help you make more reasoned decisions.

Check you've enough phone charge too.

This.. get yourself to a and e.. you can then speak to a nurse and explain and they'll help. 

They're trained for those type of disclosures and can direct you. And sort your cut at the same time.

Don't play it down it is what it is, you're escaping domestic abuse 

@Dr Faustus please let us know you're ok.

 

I'm ok guys; sorry for

I'm ok... Apparently I should find a corner and die, and at least she'll be here tomorrow

She's had a few too many, but I've got to be outtie now

How the fuck I'll afford anything

Fuck

 

 

8 hours ago, Dr Faustus said:

I'm ok... Apparently I should find a corner and die, and at least she'll be here tomorrow

She's had a few too many, but I've got to be outtie now

How the fuck I'll afford anything

Fuck

 

 

Tried to DM but can't.

I don't know you pal and get it if you don't reply but just wanna say I hope you get the help that you need.

Talk to someone before you cause you or someone else damage. "Offering it out" last night? Imagine waking up this morning having possibly seriously injured a random?

As mentioned, sort them cuts out and tell them what happened and why. Tell them the truth. They'll help you.

Surly you have some connections and somewhere to stay, a mates or family member? Even if its just for a few days to sort your head out.

I know what I've just said is easy to say but small changes can make a big difference.