4 hours ago, gonzo said:

 

 

Makes me feel absolutely sick and anxious just watching this.

I'd rather die. Honestly.

 

 

How much do they get paid for that 

And how long to they get off ship between missions

Do they end up bumming

So many questions 

7 hours ago, Zico said:

How much do they get paid for that 

And how long to they get off ship between missions

Do they end up bumming

So many questions 

Not a lot really. He talks about it towards the end of this one.

 

Edited April 5Apr 5 by Cheese

Can't cope with being off work, so started some gardening. 

No rubbish left in garden, greenhouse has gone, flowerbeds and built a decking foundation, and block paved a huge section. Managed it without spending to.. although it's going to cost for the wood. 

All done to a terrible standard btw, but it's kept my head busy. 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY635NLq4ZG/?igsh=MXZ1ZzNvaG8ycWMxNQ==

Dunno how do embed insta stuff

Edited June 12Jun 12 by burnden

Kinell.

Good clip that.

1 hour ago, burnden said:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY635NLq4ZG/?igsh=MXZ1ZzNvaG8ycWMxNQ==

Dunno how do embed insta stuff

it's a ball ache

you can only do it on desktop

you need to get the embed code from Instagram

then when posting on here

switch to html mode and paste it in

I can do a video on how to do this if it helps

On 28/03/2026 at 08:36, Ani said:

I am a bit hung up on mortality at the moment it is a potential black hole.

I am 60, both parents gone step mum gone, my missus still has her mum.

we both have 1 uncle and 1 auntie still hgoung

Then we are suddenly* the oldest in the family so next in line !

Daft thing is these thoughts all started with dog being ill over Xmas. 
 

I am not over thinking it but it is there, strange thoughts ! 
 

 * suddenly - really means gradually over last 20 years or so 😂

I’m in similar position… hardly anyone left on my side of the family other than Brother & Sister, if I’m not keeping busy ruminating thoughts occur, I’m still working so that sort of helps take mind of stuff… this morning cooked the family breakfast, washed pots, then started thinking, so thought fuck that get to the gym… keeping busy helps me.

Doesn’t help with people having a dig on here about people’s age. It’s the last prejudice to be confronted. I stay here for that very reason. 😉

1 hour ago, BobyBrno said:

Doesn’t help with people having a dig on here about people’s age. It’s the last prejudice to be confronted. I stay here for that very reason. 😉

Old bastard. ;-)

I'll be 70 next month.

I wake up every morning and think "fuck me I'm still here, so lets get on with it"

Lots of guys I have known haven't got this far down the road so I see it as a privelage and something to be honoured in their memory.

Bugger on and don't let the bastards grind you down

70? Well done, fella.

17 minutes ago, Traf said:

70? Well done, fella.

Couple of weeks yet..... chickens and counting I suppose... then it'll be the big 8 and I really will be impossible

I’ve never been sure of my age. It’s not mattered much for ages so it’s always been am I either/or. However Mrs Fogarty confirms I’m 72 in a few weeks. Middle of July ish.

I’m posting this at 5:10 am. I’m awake most of the night up and down for a slash and a brew but this 5am brew seems to knock me out for a few hours.

1 hour ago, FrancisFogarty said:

I’ve never been sure of my age. It’s not mattered much for ages so it’s always been am I either/or. However Mrs Fogarty confirms I’m 72 in a few weeks. Middle of July ish.

I’m posting this at 5:10 am. I’m awake most of the night up and down for a slash and a brew but this 5am brew seems to knock me out for a few hours.

My dad's the same. Gets off to sleep with a big glug of whisky and a couple of his gabapentin. Nice little cocktail I must say.

I reckon we should name it.

Anyhoo he's wide awake come 4am so gets in his chair and watches shite on the telly unitll he nods off again.

3 hours ago, gonzo said:

My dad's the same. Gets off to sleep with a big glug of whisky and a couple of his gabapentin. Nice little cocktail I must say.

I reckon we should name it.

Anyhoo he's wide awake come 4am so gets in his chair and watches shite on the telly unitll he nods off again.

Since her stroke last year I’m scared to death of being out of it in case something happens again. I can’t risk it. You only get one chance to not balls it up.

2 hours ago, FrancisFogarty said:

Since her stroke last year I’m scared to death of being out of it in case something happens again. I can’t risk it. You only get one chance to not balls it up.

Must be a horrible situation to be in that.

You have to look after yourself though, to be in the best shape to help her.

4 hours ago, Tonge moor green jacket said:

Must be a horrible situation to be in that.

You have to look after yourself though, to be in the best shape to help her.

Thank you for your concern. I’m okay. We’ve got a great daughter who keeps an eye on her too.

My condition has worsened over the past 18 months, I now cannot walk and have lost the use of my right arm and hand, no more bird houses to be made, in constant pain and I know depression is creeping in, I am at Salford Royal for 2 days a month for a 4 hour infusion, this is for the foreseeable future. Same as others I have a very large drink (Vodka and lemonade) every night which means I get about 4 -5 hours sleep. I have had adaptations made in the house which again is depressing, (the grandkids love the stairlift), my only pleasure now is Monday Club (pitch and toss night) and Thursday club when we put the world to rights, 3 pints is my limit because there is no disabled toilet in my local. I keep my season ticket but this coming season I have to go pitchside because I cannot get up the few steps to where my daughter and kids sit, I have had to stop going away matches as I hate being a burden to anyone. i will talk to someone eventually, just not ready yet.

Sorry to hear that. Take it at your own pace. You always come across as a sensible bloke so I’m sure that you’ll reach out when ready. All the best

Christ , that’s a hard read. Only thing as a stranger can say is don’t be afraid of the stigma of the illegal drugs. Couple of good friends got through some serious issues with CBD and micro dosing mushrooms.

1 hour ago, athywhite1958 said:

My condition has worsened over the past 18 months, I now cannot walk and have lost the use of my right arm and hand, no more bird houses to be made, in constant pain and I know depression is creeping in, I am at Salford Royal for 2 days a month for a 4 hour infusion, this is for the foreseeable future. Same as others I have a very large drink (Vodka and lemonade) every night which means I get about 4 -5 hours sleep. I have had adaptations made in the house which again is depressing, (the grandkids love the stairlift), my only pleasure now is Monday Club (pitch and toss night) and Thursday club when we put the world to rights, 3 pints is my limit because there is no disabled toilet in my local. I keep my season ticket but this coming season I have to go pitchside because I cannot get up the few steps to where my daughter and kids sit, I have had to stop going away matches as I hate being a burden to anyone. i will talk to someone eventually, just not ready yet.

Fuck sake not good to hear…. You’ve been unbelievably strong with your illness… speak to your doctor if you’re feeling low. One of my favourite photos and the only night I had on the piss with you. (I’ve never been same since :)Take care pal. 👌

Edited June 19Jun 19 by Mounts Kipper

Sorry to hear about your struggles athy, but I do advise you speak with your family and also professionals about how you are feeling, it can and will get better pal.

3 hours ago, athywhite1958 said:

My condition has worsened over the past 18 months, I now cannot walk and have lost the use of my right arm and hand, no more bird houses to be made, in constant pain and I know depression is creeping in, I am at Salford Royal for 2 days a month for a 4 hour infusion, this is for the foreseeable future. Same as others I have a very large drink (Vodka and lemonade) every night which means I get about 4 -5 hours sleep. I have had adaptations made in the house which again is depressing, (the grandkids love the stairlift), my only pleasure now is Monday Club (pitch and toss night) and Thursday club when we put the world to rights, 3 pints is my limit because there is no disabled toilet in my local. I keep my season ticket but this coming season I have to go pitchside because I cannot get up the few steps to where my daughter and kids sit, I have had to stop going away matches as I hate being a burden to anyone. i will talk to someone eventually, just not ready yet.

Sorry to hear about your health issues.

None of my business as to your lifestyle choices but I attach a link to a NHS leaflet on alcohol and sleep.

It focuses on insomnia (which isn't your issue, I know), but what it talks about, equally applies to quality and length of sleeping.

It's there if you want to read it.

It may help you.

It may not.

alcoholandinsomnia-5.pdf

Respect to you for opening up mate! 👍

Wishing you all the best

5 hours ago, athywhite1958 said:

My condition has worsened over the past 18 months, I now cannot walk and have lost the use of my right arm and hand, no more bird houses to be made, in constant pain and I know depression is creeping in, I am at Salford Royal for 2 days a month for a 4 hour infusion, this is for the foreseeable future. Same as others I have a very large drink (Vodka and lemonade) every night which means I get about 4 -5 hours sleep. I have had adaptations made in the house which again is depressing, (the grandkids love the stairlift), my only pleasure now is Monday Club (pitch and toss night) and Thursday club when we put the world to rights, 3 pints is my limit because there is no disabled toilet in my local. I keep my season ticket but this coming season I have to go pitchside because I cannot get up the few steps to where my daughter and kids sit, I have had to stop going away matches as I hate being a burden to anyone. i will talk to someone eventually, just not ready yet.

That’s a shitter and no mistake. I’m sure you’re not a burden to anyone except in your head. I’d say talk to someone while it’s still your choice.

I met you once by accident one night match at Colls. I was talking to a mate and WWays came up and someone asked if I knew AthyWhite, that’s him there so I introduced myself . Look after yourself.