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Men crying

Uncomfortable innit? And embarrassing if it's you. I've spent most of today with my eyes inexplicably welled up, trying to force the tears back in. My son turned 9 yesterday so it's probably something to do with that. Working from home thankfully, so no witnesses.

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  • bolton_blondie
    bolton_blondie

    Nowt wrong with men crying.  If more men addressed their feelings and emotions instead of being told to 'man up' we wouldn't have such a Problem with male suicide rates. Instead they bottle it up

  • Tonge moor green jacket
    Tonge moor green jacket

    The recognising bit is the problem. If you dont recognise it, then that's when the bottle can explode.

  • Boys Don't Cry, according to The Cure and Frankie Valli then Fergie said Big Girls Don't Cry. Real men, however, do cry, which is why Spider doesn't.  

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4 minutes ago, wanderer1984 said:

Thats horrendous.

It was.

I was in the queue for tickets at Burnden and someone from work came to tell me to go home. When I got home I was told it wasn't our daughters coach, but that didn't help.

I'm a right soft arse these days.  Well up at the slightest thing on the box.  When the vet put the dog to sleep I scriked my eyes out.

A colleague’s lad was on the trip which crashed. He went to hell and back in the time between hearing about the crash and finding out his son survived and then back to hell again when the names were released and it was a good friend of his son.

Cried when my kids were born

 Before that at St Ann’s square after the Manchester bombing I was in amongst the crowd and a woman started singing don’t look back in anger and I just went

 

30 minutes ago, boltondiver said:

Soon as Sound of Music comes on...........

Comepletely out of the blue I was watching calamity Jane on some rough arse Sunday afternoon after a mad night out out with my mates and my Mrs. Take me back to the black Hills. It was the song that was played at my grandma's funeral when I was 14. Not heard it since. Was in tears! 

Recently my grandads funeral. He was 94, 20 years on his own since my grandma died, had no qualms when he died as we knew it was coming for years but still emotional when saying the last goodbye.

Other than that at the opposite end ... I reckon adrenaline was close to making me cry at the forest game. 

Deffo had a couple of tears when both kids were born but it might have just been relief the Mrs would shut the fuck up screaming! 🤣 

 

Always sob like a baby when Nana dies in Royle family! EVERYTIME. 

When we got relegated at Stamford bridge I was a wreck !

See, @Cheese, we’re all the same

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Think I'm going to take a break from things for a while. Cheers ladies and gents. COYWM

2 minutes ago, Cheese said:

Think I'm going to take a break from things for a while. Cheers ladies and gents. COYWM

Chin up fella and stay strong.

You've got my number if you need to chat 👍 

6 minutes ago, Cheese said:

Think I'm going to take a break from things for a while. Cheers ladies and gents. COYWM

Take it easy cheese and don’t let things get on top of you. Plenty of willing ears on here should you need it. 

7 minutes ago, Cheese said:

Think I'm going to take a break from things for a while. Cheers ladies and gents. COYWM

Don’t push back and you’ll be fine

@Cheese take it easy luv x

10 minutes ago, Cheese said:

Think I'm going to take a break from things for a while. Cheers ladies and gents. COYWM

You’re a good man. Get yourself together. You know where I am

2 hours ago, Spider said:

I cried when my son was born

I saw the carnage and assumed I’d be rattling around like a pen in a tumble dryer for years after

 

1 hour ago, boogs said:

The best description I've heard for watching your Mrs give birth was "it was like watching my favourite pub burn down" 😂

Woah!! Just hang on a minute. You watched Mrs Spider give birth and it was like watching your favourite pub burn down?

Too many questions....

11 minutes ago, Cheese said:

Think I'm going to take a break from things for a while. Cheers ladies and gents. COYWM

I know I don't know you as well as the longer posters on here but you're a good guy, go gently buddy and I hope to see you fighting the good fight on here again soon 😉

"The Cheese Abides. I don't know about you, but I take comfort in that. It's good knowin' he's out there, The Cheese, takin' her easy for all us sinners."

Take 'er easy Dude 👍

 

3 minutes ago, MancWanderer said:

 

Woah!! Just hang on a minute. You watched Mrs Spider give birth and it was like watching your favourite pub burn down?

Too many questions....

😁 Read it back to myself after posting and wondered who would be first to pull me on that. 

5 minutes ago, boogs said:

😁 Read it back to myself after posting and wondered who would be first to pull me on that. 

You watched Mrs Spoder give birth in your favourite boozer whilst it burned down?

5 hours ago, Zico said:

generally it's ok

things that don't count include:

  • watching a soap
  • watching a bids film
  • watching a musical
  • being relegated

and so on

Is it ok during and after sex ? 

3 minutes ago, Ani said:

Is it ok during and after sex ? 

Yes - but NEVER before!

14 minutes ago, Rudy said:

You watched Mrs Spoder give birth in your favourite boozer whilst it burned down?

Don't know how to answer that apart from what you've quoted, which was an answer to the same question from Manc. 

Got ma wording wrong dint I. 

The Dambusters, certain parts of the film, “Enemy coast ahead” as the Lancaster’s cross the channel into Holland.  Flying along the canal and the electric pylons near miss.  When the first dam gets breached “Skipper it’s gone”.    Barnes Wallis getting congratulated and him swinging his arms about when word gets back to Bomber Command the 2nd dam is breached.  Very emotional, knowing it’s all true and the average age of these lads were 23 and had pretty crap navigational equipment, bloody tremendous.     Got goosebumps writing this, those lads gave their all for us.

6 hours ago, marple whites said:

When we got relegated at Stamford bridge I was a wreck !

Same here 

6 hours ago, Breightmet Boy said:

The Dambusters, certain parts of the film, “Enemy coast ahead” as the Lancaster’s cross the channel into Holland.  Flying along the canal and the electric pylons near miss.  When the first dam gets breached “Skipper it’s gone”.    Barnes Wallis getting congratulated and him swinging his arms about when word gets back to Bomber Command the 2nd dam is breached.  Very emotional, knowing it’s all true and the average age of these lads were 23 and had pretty crap navigational equipment, bloody tremendous.     Got goosebumps writing this, those lads gave their all for us.

Good shout. Greyhound recently got me as my "waste of space alky" grandad climbed out of three separate sinking convoy escorts before getting packed off to Burma. Poor sod lived his life with PTSD and was vilified by society. No, his name wasn't Albert.

Strangely enough when Stallone, Caine, Pele et al are looking around at the surrender monkeys chanting Victoire gets me every time. 

Puffs

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