Thanks to Burnden for this info on the other  thread

 

Just seen a post on my neices fb , turns out she is mates with Happys daughter ..... I don't know how to post a link here but this is what the post says ..

 

Ella Thompson

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In July 2020, my dad was diagnosed with a stage 4 glioblastoma - an aggressive brain tumour that has no cure, out of absolutely nowhere. We had no idea and overnight our lives were turned upside down. In August 2020 he underwent surgery, and then started chemotherapy and radiotherapy, and was lucky enough to be selected for a immunotherapy clinical trial. Thankfully, my dad is still with us a year on, but this condition has a 5 year survival rate of 20%. Glioblastomas affect only 0.00321% of the population. Or 3.21 individuals per 100,000. 

My mum has been absolutely amazing throughout this whole last year, from driving him to the other side of Manchester for his treatment everyday to giving my dad his medication each morning and night- she is such an incredible woman and I am so proud to call her my mum. 

To top it off, she’s running 5K everyday in October for The Brain Tumour Charity- a charity focused on research surrounding brain tumours and aiming to boost the survival rate past 5 years, and hopefully find a cure. 

If you could donate anything, it would mean the world, not only to my family, but also hopefully make sure in the future that no one has to go through what my dad has in the past 12 months.

Thank you 

 

https://www.thetwilightwalk.com/fundraising/marias-daily-run-for-neil

Terrible news. Thoughts with Neil and family. 

12 hours ago, Mounts Kipper said:

Hope his last days are peaceful and painless, heart breaking news. Thoughts with Neil’s family. 

Rubbish news can only echo Mount's thoughts.

Sad to hear this bad news. Best wishes to all the family. 

 

Fenny

Spoke only briefly to Neil while booking Guimares, don’t think I ever met him.

Such sad news, hopefully he’s as pain free as possible

2 hours ago, Biggish Dave said:

Spoke only briefly to Neil while booking Guimares, don’t think I ever met him.

Such sad news, hopefully he’s as pain free as possible

Spoke to Neil whilst booking a few on the Wways trip to Guimaraes,then met him in Madrid before our game with Atletico. Top bloke.

Sad news  .  Joined w.ways in the early days,  couple of nodding-letting on occasions at games,  I probably got introduced 'Wayne cramp this is happy wanderer'   

Thoughts with Neil's family. 

Thoughts with Neil and his family. 

Very, very sad news.  Went on an away with Neil in the early days of wways, think Casino may have driven.  All the best to the family.

I rarely post nowadays but this site has been a mainstay for me in terms of keeping in touch with all things BWFC, and throughout the last 18 years I’ve laughed, cried, and everything in between so thanks Neil, I met you once or twice, and god bless. Hope the site prospers after this great legacy you gave us. Thank you 

Nicely put. Not easy to find the words, but that's great.

1 hour ago, zurichwhite said:

I rarely post nowadays but this site has been a mainstay for me in terms of keeping in touch with all things BWFC, and throughout the last 18 years I’ve laughed, cried, and everything in between so thanks Neil, I met you once or twice, and god bless. Hope the site prospers after this great legacy you gave us. Thank you 

Nice Post mate. 

This site is just something else! I don't post much compared to others but love having a scroll through and reading the weird and wonderful. 

We see the funny and stupid, the cheeky and irritating, the best and worse in people. I love it.

I've never met Neil before but would like to thank him for bringing us Wanderers together by creating this forum.

Terribly sad news. 

Really I'm just echoing everything already said here. This site has been amazing for so many of us and that's Neil's legacy as well as his family. 

I think I might have had some conversation in guimaraes or some other European away after too many beers but never more than that but definitely seen his face on many away game. 

I hope his final day's are painless and as peaceful as possible. 

Top wanderer! 

 

Let’s hope that miracles do happen.

Whatever the future holds, Neil will have left a legacy that will never be forgotten.

Bringing so many folks together with a common love. 
 

FV’s motto of ‘’One Community “ could almost have been borrowed from Neil’s vision.

Love to the family. x

Sad news dont think I met Neil but a big thank you from me for his work on this site.

My thoughts are with Neil and his family .

Aye it's worth pointing out this site has brought together many, many people in the real world. Met folk off here in Dubai, Hong Kong, Christchurch, Perth as well as in Bolton and the rest of England. 

Unofficial Happy Tours e.g. Sofia to Skopje, official Happy Tours Lisbon day trip. The site kills an hour or so every day, more for some. It's responsible for so much. 

Awful news. Lovely lad Neil. Only met him around half a dozen times during visits back to Bolton but always a top lad with great humour and BWFC to the core.

From the other side of the globe, thoughts are with the family and those amazing girls of his.

I don't think Neil will ever understand what a big impact he's had on so many people's lives - and the lasting friendships that have been made through his work setting up this site. Such sad news to hear about his condition. 

I've never had the privilege to meet him - but I feel like I owe him a lot...........

Gutted to read the last update. 

I think we really owe it to him & his family to get a Sportman’s (sic) dinner organised, and raise some funds for his loved ones. 

3 hours ago, Smiley said:

Gutted to read the last update. 

I think we really owe it to him & his family to get a Sportman’s (sic) dinner organised, and raise some funds for his loved ones. 

It was at one of the Sportsman’s dinners (some ladies were present) that I first met Neil. Persuaded me to advertise on the site, which I did gladly and then met him on many other occasions. 
The dinners allowed many on here to actually meet fellow posters. Went to a few more after.
Its a great idea. 

I’ve been in touch with the BWRG. Think they may do something pre and post the inevitable. 

On his own Neil set up BWFC message board that eventually evolved in to WWs. It couldn't have been easy running a site for 20+ years. And through this site I have made some good friends.

I'm really gutted to hear of his health issues. Thoughts are with him and his family.

BWFC owner Michael James has donated £1000.

 

Thanks to Stejay for sorting this ❤️

1 hour ago, Horwich said:

BWFC owner Michael James has donated £1000.

 

Thanks to Stejay for sorting this ❤️

Well played Stejay.

Can you imagine Ken Anderson making such a donation?

No though not. Class act are our current owners.

Dont post much but I'm gutted to read this, just to echo what others have said really, I've been on here nearly 20 years and met so many sound people, its made me really feel part of something, those friendships have enhanced my life never mind going to the match. I've lost count of the number of times someone on here has been down on their luck and people have rushed in to offer support, or the money raised for charity as well. I'll be forever grateful to Happy for the friendships I've made through here, I'm someone he's only met fleetingly yet he's made a big difference to my life.. as someone else said that is some legacy

My thoughts are with Neil and his family.