May 21, 20224 yr 39 minutes ago, Not in Crawley said: Yeah it's a pain getting to Bolton from Cambridge. I thought moving further that way would be easier but it's quicker driving or getting the train from South London. Although its got a.lot better on the train, there is a fast services from King's Cross but it's not cheap. But if you live more than a certain amount of miles from your kids and you have regular contact you get money off with the CSA so you can still have regular contact. For me it's about £60 a month off what I have to pay. We’ve never done it through the CSA but doing the calculator I’d be paying another £70 a month compared to what I’m paying now (which was actually an over-calculation based on how many nights he’s usually with us) so neither here or there really.
May 21, 20224 yr 25 minutes ago, little whitt said: Driving you can do it in 3 Hrs M6 A14 M11 for about a mile bobs your Uncle Fanny's your Aunt At 3 in the morning maybe
May 21, 20224 yr Heart goes out to you Matt. It's a real shitter and there are no winners. I don't knowhow I'd cope, I've never had anything like this I don't know you but l look after yourself mate.
May 21, 20224 yr 51 minutes ago, dave2980 said: At 3 in the morning maybe im not talking Friday afternoon
May 21, 20224 yr Taken him out for his tea tonight (bumped in to Mr Grey, oddly enough) and just dropped him off ahead of the move tomorrow 💔 His cheeky cunt mother text me while we were in the restaurant asking what time we were dropping him off. Let us have our time FFS. T’lad was on good form at least, particularly having seen his mates in the afternoon, and even got to see his cousin and my brother when they nipped in to the restaurant for a takeaway.
May 22, 20224 yr Sorry to hear this Matt. I appreciate this is of no use but I sit on the other side having step kids live with me and I wouldn’t dream of leaving the area until they are adults as for me that’s the situation you inherit. Hope all works out for you in the end.
May 22, 20224 yr 10 minutes ago, tomski said: Sorry to hear this Matt. I appreciate this is of no use but I sit on the other side having step kids live with me and I wouldn’t dream of leaving the area until they are adults as for me that’s the situation you inherit. Hope all works out for you in the end. Sorry about the situation or the fact he bumped into grey?😬
May 22, 20224 yr 8 minutes ago, Escobarp said: Sorry about the situation or the fact he bumped into grey?😬 Both
June 22, 20224 yr 1 hour ago, bolton_blondie said: I've decided now what makes my mood shit. Men. I attract dickheads it seems. Give yourself a break BB, think positive and smile while the sun is shining
June 22, 20224 yr 16 hours ago, Winchester White said: The Daily Mail plumbs new depths. Who the fuckery reads their shite? A lot of people apparently. Saw this article during a mental health stigma workshop at work. Bring us back to the good old days of when men had a fry up every day and boxed up all their feelings. Love that you're now a snowflake if you open up to someone. Edited June 22, 20224 yr by London Wanderer
June 22, 20224 yr My Mrs is fucking mental. Pretty convinced she's developed OCD (but not the cleanliness or tidyness type) and currently hates her job so talks of quitting work every day to start a shop selling scented candles or some shit. It's fucking ace.
June 22, 20224 yr Just now, stevieb said: My Mrs is fucking mental. They all are, mate. It's like some delayed adverse reaction to wedding cake.
June 22, 20224 yr 25 minutes ago, Traf said: They all are, mate. It's like some delayed adverse reaction to wedding cake. We're 12 years engaged. So it's not even that.... Or maybe it's that....
June 22, 20224 yr 44 minutes ago, stevieb said: My Mrs is fucking mental. Pretty convinced she's developed OCD (but not the cleanliness or tidyness type) and currently hates her job so talks of quitting work every day to start a shop selling scented candles or some shit. It's fucking ace. My other half has a different idea pretty much every week
June 22, 20224 yr 1 minute ago, Zico said: My other half has a different idea pretty much every week Same here. It's fucking draining. Papping on about her woes whilst I'm trying to do battlenips... Have a fucking day off love.
June 23, 20224 yr My mrs is exactly the same, they never seem to just quit and go and open the artisan clothes hanger shop or just work at fucking Tesco though.
June 23, 20224 yr 11 hours ago, Traf said: They all are, mate. It's like some delayed adverse reaction to wedding cake. Never been wed so what's my excuse?
June 23, 20224 yr I can't beleive depression still exists It's almost like all those inspirational quotes and memes on Facebook aren't working.
June 23, 20224 yr 10 hours ago, Spider said: I can't beleive depression still exists It's almost like all those inspirational quotes and memes on Facebook aren't working. Ironically if I see a "live, laugh, love" type post i get angry, contemptuous and depressed
June 23, 20224 yr Thinking about it i might get a poster that says "anger, contempt, depression" in a curly fun font printed on a5 and hang it up in my bathroom
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