Site Supporter fatolive Posted January 3, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 3, 2020 Girl at work identifies as “asexual” apparently it’s a defined orientation and isn’t the new word for “ frigid” according to our HR and the disciplinary investigation I’ve just had to chair... must admit, I’d never heard of that before either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter MickyD Posted January 3, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 3, 2020 3 minutes ago, fatolive said: Girl at work identifies as “asexual” apparently it’s a defined orientation and isn’t the new word for “ frigid” according to our HR and the disciplinary investigation I’ve just had to chair... must admit, I’d never heard of that before either. One assumes you have to keep your face straight while chairing such trials. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Traf Posted January 3, 2020 Share Posted January 3, 2020 1 minute ago, MickyD said: One assumes you have to keep your face straight while chairing such trials. Can't use the word straight in case it offends someone who isn't Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter fatolive Posted January 3, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 3, 2020 Just now, MickyD said: One assumes you have to keep your face straight while chairing such trials. I do but this hearing was just gathering the evidence in an investigation I felt sorry for them both as one didn’t mean the offence through ignorance of what it actually was ( I have sympathy as I had the same ignorance) and one took it badly as offensive description of who she is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Winchester White Posted January 3, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 3, 2020 There are 2 defined sexes; male and female as determined by our reproductive organs, in which the vast majority of us humans are identifiable by. Some are unfortunate enough to be born with a bit of both in which neither works very well. Everyone is different and humans always have been, it's mainly determined by our genes and these differences are now understood more. Being asexual sounds a right shitter though, not being turned on by any fucker by raw sexual attraction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter victor meldrew Posted January 3, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 3, 2020 15 minutes ago, Winchester White said: Being asexual sounds a right shitter though, not being turned on by any fucker by raw sexual attraction. or being married for 30 years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeep Posted January 3, 2020 Share Posted January 3, 2020 52 minutes ago, fatolive said: Girl at work identifies as “asexual” apparently it’s a defined orientation and isn’t the new word for “ frigid” according to our HR and the disciplinary investigation I’ve just had to face... must admit, I’d never heard of that before either. EFA 😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Winchester White Posted January 3, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 3, 2020 28 minutes ago, victor meldrew said: or being married for 30 years Fair point. But you can still appreciate the fine form of whatever takes your fancy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frank_spencer Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 1 hour ago, Big E said: I feel there is more to this Frank.....come on spill 😁 Sadly have to disappoint. Other than her having a snog and a fumble with lasses whilst at college nowt exciting. We've been together 17yrs. The main 2 bonuses are my lack of manliness isn't an issue and I can ogle to my heart's content whilst out and about as long as I point out the good ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frank_spencer Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 26 minutes ago, Winchester White said: Fair point. But you can still appreciate the fine form of whatever takes your fancy I've a mate who is asexual, he finds the very idea of sex 'icky' (to use his terminology) doesn't mean he doesn't find people fit. Ideally they would come back to his undress so he can have a good look then they can piss off and leave him alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter fatolive Posted January 4, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 4, 2020 39 minutes ago, frank_spencer said: I've a mate who is asexual, he finds the very idea of sex 'icky' (to use his terminology) doesn't mean he doesn't find people fit. Ideally they would come back to his undress so he can have a good look then they can piss off and leave him alone. That’s the very same and what caused the discussion that led to the “ it used to be called frigid” remark, she said she finds people handsome/ attractive etc but the thought of having sex with them didn’t cross her mind, even though they were attractive to her., she would have no desire or urge for them other than to admire them for how they appeared. Admiration was satisfaction enough. Suppose it’s just the opposite end of the “ shag owt “ scale in truth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter only1swanny Posted January 4, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 4, 2020 5 hours ago, fatolive said: That’s the very same and what caused the discussion that led to the “ it used to be called frigid” remark, she said she finds people handsome/ attractive etc but the thought of having sex with them didn’t cross her mind, even though they were attractive to her., she would have no desire or urge for them other than to admire them for how they appeared. Admiration was satisfaction enough. Suppose it’s just the opposite end of the “ shag owt “ scale in truth So basically she's married? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big E Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 7 hours ago, frank_spencer said: Sadly have to disappoint. Other than her having a snog and a fumble with lasses whilst at college nowt exciting. We've been together 17yrs. The main 2 bonuses are my lack of manliness isn't an issue and I can ogle to my heart's content whilst out and about as long as I point out the good ones. Reading between the lines she likes you to dress as Mrs Flinstone for kinky sex play with her purple dildo that she calls Dino 😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frank_spencer Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 1 hour ago, Big E said: Reading between the lines she likes you to dress as Mrs Flinstone for kinky sex play with her purple dildo that she calls Dino 😁 She prefers my Betty Rubble costume Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter MickyD Posted January 4, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 4, 2020 8 hours ago, fatolive said: That’s the very same and what caused the discussion that led to the “ it used to be called frigid” remark, she said she finds people handsome/ attractive etc but the thought of having sex with them didn’t cross her mind, even though they were attractive to her., she would have no desire or urge for them other than to admire them for how they appeared. Admiration was satisfaction enough. Suppose it’s just the opposite end of the “ shag owt “ scale in truth You've got to be asking why she was happy to discuss her asexuality in an office environment but not be so happy to hear the responses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter Tonge moor green jacket Posted January 4, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 4, 2020 9 hours ago, frank_spencer said: Sadly have to disappoint. Other than her having a snog and a fumble with lasses whilst at college nowt exciting. We've been together 17yrs. The main 2 bonuses are my lack of manliness isn't an issue and I can ogle to my heart's content whilst out and about as long as I point out the good ones. Does that really constitute bi sexuality? Christ, I'd imagine many students have done similar, at bit of exploring. Anyway, if she fancied a quick dalliance with another lady, would it be acceptable for you to have a go too? Perhaps all at the same time; reckon you might be on to a winner! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators Zico Posted January 4, 2020 Moderators Share Posted January 4, 2020 3 minutes ago, Tonge moor green jacket said: Does that really constitute bi sexuality? Christ, I'd imagine many students have done similar, at bit of exploring. Bloody double standards A girl does a bit of exploring at uni and its all sexy and fnar fnar But i have a go and I'm kicked out the orienteering society Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter fatolive Posted January 4, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 4, 2020 4 hours ago, MickyD said: You've got to be asking why she was happy to discuss her asexuality in an office environment but not be so happy to hear the responses. Well without going into too much detail, it wasn’t quite like that , she wasn’t discussing it just confirmed her position when asked , and even if she was the response has to be respectful and not piss taking in this day and age no matter what it is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 15 hours ago, frank_spencer said: I've a mate who is asexual, he finds the very idea of sex 'icky' (to use his terminology) doesn't mean he doesn't find people fit. Ideally they would come back to his undress so he can have a good look then they can piss off and leave him alone. Sounds more like wan-ksexual Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 5 minutes ago, Salford Trotter said: Probably in the eye of that MP Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter FrancisFogarty Posted January 8, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 8, 2020 So when Bill Haley (of Comets fame) exhorted us to "get into that kitchen and rattle those pots and pans" was he advocating the virtues of a scullery pile-on? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter RONNIE PHILLIPS Posted January 8, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 8, 2020 Always thought Pans people were a bit mucky 😉 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bolty58 Posted January 9, 2020 Members Share Posted January 9, 2020 Tefallatio might be alreet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Site Supporter MickyD Posted January 9, 2020 Site Supporter Share Posted January 9, 2020 4 hours ago, bolty58 said: Tefallatio might be alreet. And following that you could non-stick it up there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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